By Julie Ganschow
I believe there is an overwhelming tendency in the world and in the church to take good advice and good counsel and make it all about ourselves. Humans are terribly self-centered and we take
every opportunity to bring things back to a self-focus.
Did you ever notice that in a group of women that it is rare to see them actually listening to the one speaking and even rarer to hear them comment on what is being said without reference
to self? No matter what the problem or issue is the other women in the group invariably bring up something about themselves and a time that something similar happened to them. We want
to think we are empathizing or sympathizing but in reality, we are attempting to refocus the conversation on ourselves.
Life change operates the same way; we want it to be all about us. When sin brings us unpleasant consequences we determine that change is needed so the consequences will go away. When we are feeling bad or sad for one reason or another we want to change so we will feel better. We change because we fear the reactions and responses of other people, or we want their approval.
This is man-centered living and it is anti-God and anti-Christ. Nowhere does the Bible tell us to be transformed so we can be happy, live our best life now, please others, or even please ourselves. We are to change to honor, please, and glorify God. We are to change and be changed because what we are thinking, believing, and desiring in our hearts is not glorifying to God. We are to change because at times we make a mockery of the cross and the sacrifice of Christ on that cross for our sin.
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect. Romans
The reason we change is to testify that the will of God- that which is good, acceptable and perfect – is true. The reason that we change is to glorify God by obedience to His Word and His
commands to be conformed to the image and likeness of Christ (Romans 8:29).
All change must be Christ-centered and cross-centered to be biblical. Nothing else will do…nothing else will glorify Him.
Have you been trying to make changes in your life? How successful have you been? Have you been merely rearranging your flesh through self-help books, resolutions, support groups, and 12 step programs? While you may be successful at surface changes, until your heart is fully engulfed in the change process, your efforts will be just that – your efforts. A sinner trying vainly to change sinful habits of the heart.
Christ-centered change acknowledges that there is nothing good within you to accomplish change. It requires humility to admit sin, repentance that is born of a heart that is broken by that
sin, and desire to change for the glory of God.